So after I finally passed the Fsh level at a rate of 7 they got the referral in writing.
It had taken 3 attempts of ratings of 14 which meant turn downs by the gp for IVF referral.
That was it! It was crunch time, the caffeine went, the supplements started and the alcohol was reduced. I tried aloe Vera, flax seed, vitamin b and finally settled with Pregnacare before conception tablets.
I then got the surprising call the my fsh was low enough to go for referral!